<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935</id><updated>2008-05-21T08:38:52.444-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Parlez Moi Blog</title><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/parlezmoiblog.html'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default'/><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/feed/atom.xml'/><author><name>Kathleen Valentine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15964712984479525970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>575</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935.post-8382419660262831916</id><published>2008-05-21T08:27:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2008-05-21T08:38:52.582-05:00</updated><title type='text'>What Would Judge Judy Do?</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"  &gt;A film crew from Belgium is in the area interviewing (or trying to interview) various players in the Defonseca Hoax. On Sunday they were here in Gloucester to film interviews with Jane Daniel and her attorney &lt;a href="http://www.orlandoassociates.com/"&gt;Joseph M. Orlando&lt;/a&gt;. Monday they were headed to Wolf Hollow in Ipswich to interview the owners there who had been entirely taken in by Misha Defonseca. Joanie Soffron, the owner of Wolf Hollow, I am told was in tears when she found out the truth about the hoax. She was devastated that this woman had lied to her.&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Last night another journalist from France arrived. She is interviewing several people involved in uncovering the hoax. I have been invited to have dinner with her this evening. The European press, I hear, is in a rage over this entire story. That’s somewhat gratifying because so far the American press has been somewhat oblivious. I can’t figure out if we are so accustomed to being scammed by authors like James Frey and Margaret Setzer that hoaxes don’t interest us or that we are so accustomed to corruption that it has become no big deal. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;There has been outrage. Karen Schulman, the woman who took the Defonseca’s into her home for 2 years when she heard Misha’s tale of woe about being swindled by her publisher, has started her own blog --- &lt;a href="http://www.silenceequalspermission.blogspot.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Silence Equals Permission&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. She was so angered by the deception she is asking others to share their stories through her blog. It remains to be seen if anyone will.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The &lt;a href="http://www.ancestralmanor.com/"&gt;forensic genealogist&lt;/a&gt; who discovered Defonseca’s deception has created a financial profile of the Defonsecas during the years they were crying about being financially wiped out by their publisher --- all from public records. According to the profile the Defonsecas had hundreds of thousands of dollars going through their accounts at this time. She has also sent me a copy of a letter that was circulated by a synagogue to its members telling them about how Daniel (named in the letter) had defrauded Misha and begging them for financial support for her. Many, many people responded.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;And there is still the matter of the $33 million dollar judgment against Jane Daniel handed down by the Massachusetts court. So this has me wondering about how Judge Judy would look at all of this. I don’t see her program often but I like her. She’s good at cutting through the crap. I admire that in a person --- especially a judge. So here is the situation as I see it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst"  style="text-indent: -0.25in;font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportLists]--&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;1.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;The court found Daniel guilty of failing to adequately promote the book even though she managed to get Defonseca a shot at the Oprah show. The Oprah people halted their plans because Misha was so hostile and uncooperative but still the court said Jane failed to promote her. What would Judge Judy do?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"  style="text-indent: -0.25in;font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportLists]--&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;2.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;The court found Daniel guilty of withholding funds due Defonseca thus causing her to lose her home, become destitute and eat dog food yet bank records of the period show that Defonseca’s home was already being foreclosed upon before she even met Daniel. Mount Ivy’s accounts were frozen by the court and the money ultimately went to Defonseca. Bank records also indicate that the Defonsecas had hundreds of thousands of dollars going through their accounts at this period and they paid cash for two new cars and a new home at this time. What would Judge Judy do?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast"  style="text-indent: -0.25in;font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportLists]--&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;3.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;The court found Daniel guilty of “deceptive business practices” yet Daniel turned over all her financial records to the court for examination during the trial. Daniel engaged a prestigious literary firm, Palmer &amp;amp; Dodge, to promote the book, yet Defonseca refused to cooperate with speaking schedules and set up her own speaking dates without telling her publisher. And, above all, Defonseca signed a statement saying she swore everything in her book was true and of her own experience, knowing full well &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;SHE WAS NOT EVEN JEWISH&lt;/span&gt; --- let alone a Holocaust survivor! What would Judge Judy do?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Well, Judge Judy, if you are out there and want to weigh in your good common sense would be welcome. In the meantime the foreign correspondents continue to arrive and anyone who wants to have their say is invited to participate in &lt;a href="http://www.silenceequalspermission.blogspot.com/"&gt;Karen Schulman’s blog&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Thanks for reading.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/2008/05/what-would-judge-judy-do.html' title='What Would Judge Judy Do?'/><link rel='related' href='http://www.amazon.com/Old-Mermaids-Tale-Kathleen-Valentine/dp/0978594061' title='What Would Judge Judy Do?'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14674935&amp;postID=8382419660262831916&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/8382419660262831916'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/8382419660262831916'/><author><name>Kathleen Valentine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15964712984479525970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935.post-7397223319274131987</id><published>2008-05-17T09:57:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-05-17T10:24:32.782-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A Shell of an Idea</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;I have this thing about water. Well, I'm a water sign -- Cancer -- so I suppose that explains part of it. When I was little and spending summer vacations on Lake Erie I was the sort of kid that nobody could get out of the water. Throughout my adult life I have lived close to beaches, the Gulf of Mexico, and now, for the past 20 years within a few blocks of the Atlantic Ocean. I love the fragrance of salt water. So I suppose it is no surprise that I have acquired quite a collection of seashells and beach glass.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/MysteryShell-740587.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/MysteryShell-740583.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;A few years back I was on vacation in Wellfleet and saw an ad in the paper for a workshop on making jewelry from seashells. I had several treasured pieces of shell jewel from Mexico but this sounded like fun. It was.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;Over the next few years I began collecting beads, shells and other beauties and I made several pieces of jewelry using the skills I learned in that class. What got me thinking about this is that I am in the process of purging my sewing room and I cam across the items at left. I don't know what they are, I don't remember where I got them, and I don't know what I am going to do with them. But I love them. So I got four of the necklaces I made from other shells for inspiration. I decided to post them here hoping that people might enjoy seeing them. Click on any photo to enlarge it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/ShellNecklace1-771696.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/ShellNecklace1-771688.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;The first (right) is made from a shell, some mother of pearl beads, bronze Czech glass beads and six Abalone rectangles. I've worn this one a lot and it goes with everything.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/ShellNecklace2-751341.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/ShellNecklace2-751338.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;The next one (left) is also made from a shell, MOP beads, amethyst crystal beads, some tiny gold beads and amethyst colored seedbeads and a few odd pieces of abalone. It is very long and what I love about it is you can soak a piece of cotton in fragrance and tuck it inside the shell. It is nice with long skirts and sweaters.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/ShellNecklace3-728444.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/ShellNecklace3-728440.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;The third one (right) is also long and features two beautiful triangles made from abalone and lots of chips of rose quartz. There are some carnival glass beads and some beautiful, plum-colored glass beads of mysterious origin. This one is medium length and looks perfect with a deep rose-colored turtleneck I like.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/ShellNecklace4-756623.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/ShellNecklace4-756619.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;And finally (left) is the piece I made when I took that class. It is quite simple really featuring one large turquoise bead and several small ones, four pieces of carved bone, a few milk glass beads, 2 turquoise scarabs, 2 abalone triangle beads and those two beautiful large things that are shells of mysterious origin. They are hollow and quite light in weight with beautiful color and sheen. It goes with everything.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;So, as you can tell, I really love wearing shells and I've got to come up with a great design for the ones above. Leslie tells me they are "blister pearls" --- pearls that became attached to the inside of the shells when fresh-water (cultured) pearls are made. She has volunteered to drill little holes in the sides so we can experiment with adding beads and stringing them into something lovely. With Leslie's accomplished assistance, I am sure that they will be!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;Thanks for reading.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/2008/05/shell-of-idea.html' title='A Shell of an Idea'/><link rel='related' href='http://www.kathleenvalentine.com' title='A Shell of an Idea'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14674935&amp;postID=7397223319274131987&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/7397223319274131987'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/7397223319274131987'/><author><name>Kathleen Valentine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15964712984479525970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935.post-6920651968212675157</id><published>2008-05-16T07:51:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-05-16T08:25:01.347-05:00</updated><title type='text'>New Cocoons and Bed Jackets</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;I haven't talked much about knitting lately but, looking back over the projects I finished this winter, I've done rather a lot of it. Actually, what I did was make a commitment to myself to complete a number of works in progress, So while this might look like I've done a lot, most of it has been in progress for a couple of years. I just finished them up this winter and am definitely enjoying wearing the results.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/LadyECocoon-786695.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 180px;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/LadyECocoon-786649.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;The first is the &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: verdana;font-size:85%;" &gt;What-Happened-To-My-Lady-Eleanor Shawl Cocoon&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;: I have come to the realization that I have far more shawls than I am ever going to use. So I decided to turn a couple of them into cocoons. I did this by folding up the two short ends and stitching them to one long side, leaving a couple inches for the neck. Then I picked up stitches around each "cuff" and all along the remaining edge and knit an edging that makes it quite snug and comfortable to wear. This was knit holding three strands together --- one strand of Blue Heron fingerweight raw silk in a variegated blue-purple and 2 strands of &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://handpaintedyarn.com/"&gt;Handpainted Yarns'&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt; laceweight wool in a number of colors which I changed off in alternating variations.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/BarbieJacket-711559.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/BarbieJacket-711527.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;This sweater looks fabulous with blue jeans and a white tee.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;That was so much fun to do that I took a second shawl made from &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://handpaintedyarn.com/"&gt;Handpainted Yarns&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;' Barbie Pink &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://handpaintedyarn.com/index.php?cPath=37&amp;amp;osCsid=208771863b5a623a9d0c679469af0dda"&gt;Boucle&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt; from Uruguay and did the same thing. The result is an incredibly elegant looking cocoon that I wore recently for a gallery opening with silk slacks and a silk shirt. It's shown here with one of &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.lesliewind.com/shawl.htm"&gt;Leslie Wind's gorgeous shawl pins &lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;as a closure.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/HaitianSilkJacket-716442.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/HaitianSilkJacket-716433.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;I've come up with a formula (a opposed to a pattern) for the bed jackets I have been making. It's complicated but it gives me a chance to try out many different lace patterns. I have been trying to teach myself a number of new patterns so working them in these bed jackets with a textured yarn gives me ample opportunity to learn while working with a fiber that is especially forgiving and covers mistakes well. The first one is made of some yarn I bough on eBay ages ago. It is a recycled silk and rayon blend spun in Haiti.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/RedRayonJacket-735671.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/RedRayonJacket-735659.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; (left). The color is called Monet and it is a thick and thin, nubby yarn. It is another piece that looks great with jeans and a teeshirt. I had started this at least two years ago and am glad that I finally finished it because it will be good for coolish summer evenings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;Using he same technique I made a similar jacket in this luscious lipstick red and black silk-rayon blend again from an eBay auction. I admit I have no gift for photographing these things. The sheen of this fiber is just gorgeous but you can't tell that from my photos. Again this is shown with one of Leslie's Shawl Pins. This is much warmer than I thought it would be. I crocheted all &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/PeriCotton2-736430.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/PeriCotton2-736423.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;around the cuffs and opening with a picot stitch to give it that finish.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;And finally, my favorite, a beautiful, very soft, lightweight sweater made from &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.knitpicks.com/Crayon+Boucle+Yarn_YD5420121.html"&gt;Knit Pick's luscious Pima Cotton called Crayon&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt; in Periwinkle. This yarn may qualify for my very favorite yarn to knit with. I am currently working on a summer sweater in their Azure and I have a stash of their new color, Beach Glass, waiting. It is simply the softest fiber I have ever touched --- softer than angora and cashmere in my opinion. I have another bed jacket in their Crayon Pink and I wear it all the time. I'm showing the back of the jacket here so you can get a sense of the lace patterns used. It is going to be my friend all summer!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;I also made a bed jacket similar to the ones above in a beautiful purple,  nubby wool held together with a pastel-colored ladder yarn but my sister Lisa made off with it before I got a chance to photograph it. Oh well. At least it has a happy home.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;So now that I have finished all these projects it is on to new stuff. I have a couple of scarves to photograph and post. I guess i should finish up all the scarves I've started next.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;Sigh.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;Thanks for reading.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/2008/05/new-cocoons-and-bed-jackets.html' title='New Cocoons and Bed Jackets'/><link rel='related' href='http://www.kathleenvalentine.com' title='New Cocoons and Bed Jackets'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14674935&amp;postID=6920651968212675157&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/6920651968212675157'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/6920651968212675157'/><author><name>Kathleen Valentine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15964712984479525970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935.post-2326333324652248518</id><published>2008-05-14T07:42:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-05-14T07:48:06.633-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Story: Nobody Cares About Middle Ground</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;As I mentioned before I’m completely engrossed in Robert McKee’s book &lt;/span&gt;&lt;b style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;Story&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;. It is so loaded with profound observations and information on the nature of story --- of what story is --- that I feel I could write a blog about every page. I am proceeding slowly because there is so much to digest. And I am underlining and marking pages and … well, you get the picture.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;One of the wise observations he makes is that the nature of story relies on the extremes of human reality. Nobody much cares about the middle ground of experience. Naturally it is the ability of an author to set those extremes in a highly believable and familiar setting that makes the extremes plausible to the reader. So authors seek that balance --- a familiar environment as the setting for extreme behaviors. As McKee says: &lt;i style=""&gt;A believable impossibility is more satisfying as a story than an unbelievable possibility. &lt;/i&gt;Wise words.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Yesterday a wrote a little story for some cyber-acquaintances about a situation that has been the subject of an on-going conflict for much too long. In recent months I have tried to avoid it but I decided to deal with it by concocting a story based somewhat on the truth and post it. Basically, the characters, setting, and situation is true but, because I am a writer, the telling of the tale veered into the extreme, mostly to add humor, drama, and entertainment. I used myself as the butt of the joke at the end and then I hurled it out into the world for all to see. The results were interesting but not surprising.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I was talking to a fellow writer last night who is also a teacher. He writes historical novels based on his areas of interest as a history teacher. He was complaining about his students and he said that he is beginning to believe that kids spend so much time on the internet which, of course, necessitates them reading a lot, that they are losing the ability to differentiate between what is real and what is not real. To them cyber-life is so real that they come to believe that what they read there is equally real. I want to make a distinction here between “real” and “true”. “Real” involves the willing suspension of disbelief as Samuel Taylor Coleridge said. Suspension of Disbelief is what every author, screenwriter, director, actor, etc. relies on heavily in order to practice their art. When you can convince an audience that what they are experiencing is real then you can take them to outer space where they experience attacks by aliens, or back in time where they suffer through the plague. Whether or not those stories are true doesn’t matter --- the reality of them carries them, and those who experience them, into a separate reality.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;So what happens when hours of immersion in cyber-reality become as real as actual reality? Does that suspension of disbelief become easily confused with real life? Which brings me to my story. Mostly it was an attempt to find humor in a depressingly pervasive situation. The majority of people who reacted to it reacted accordingly --- “OMG! That is so funny!” They got it. They realized it was a &lt;i style=""&gt;story&lt;/i&gt; that contained some elements of truth &lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;and some of the extremes of human experience that creates &lt;i style=""&gt;story&lt;/i&gt;. Several more took it as the gospel truth and polarized according to their personal prejudices. All in all it was highly instructive albeit not surprising to read the results.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I’ve always said that the joy of being a writer is that no experience, however awful or depressing, is wasted, if you get a good story out of it. In an interview on his &lt;a href="http://www.valentine-design.com/HubertsFreaks/author/author.html"&gt;web site&lt;/a&gt; author Gregory Gibson talks about &lt;a href="http://www.goneboy.com"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;Gone Boy&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, the book he wrote about the murder of his son in a school shooting. In the interview he says that writing that book was therapeutic for him. His experience in losing a son is one of the farthest extremes of human experience one can imagine. But his point is perfect --- whatever life hands us, from the sublime to the horrific, can be transformed through the art of story. Let’s hope that we never become so distanced from ourselves that we lose the ability to enter into that place of story and experience what we cannot live but what we can come to understand.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Thanks for reading.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/2008/05/story-nobody-cares-about-middle-ground.html' title='Story: Nobody Cares About Middle Ground'/><link rel='related' href='http://www.amazon.com/Old-Mermaids-Tale-Kathleen-Valentine/dp/0978594061' title='Story: Nobody Cares About Middle Ground'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14674935&amp;postID=2326333324652248518&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/2326333324652248518'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/2326333324652248518'/><author><name>Kathleen Valentine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15964712984479525970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935.post-2313737027628765173</id><published>2008-05-12T08:26:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2008-05-12T08:44:13.413-05:00</updated><title type='text'>That First Perfect Weekend</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/PinkBush-767037.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/PinkBush-766951.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;It happens every year --- that first glorious weekend in Gloucester when the sun is brilliant and warm, the breezes off the ocean are salty and cool, the air is fragrant with sea salt and flowers and everyone is out wandering around drunk on the beauty of the day. We’re all a little bit daffy then. The temperature on the bank clock reads 57 degrees but nobody believes it. We put on summer clothes because we can’t stand wool and fleece one more day. There are people everywhere, walking, cycling, driving, sitting, basking in the sunlight. The dogs go nuts. Summer will come and soon.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;It is hard to stay inside. Saturday was&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/CityHill-704829.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/CityHill-704824.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; needleworker’s day and we gathered in Connie’s beautiful living room to work on our projects but the light was so beautiful shining down on the twin lighthouses of Thacher’s Island that we watched them all day. The waves were high and foaming white with little rainbows dancing off of them as they rolled and rolled and rolled. “Look at the waves,” we kept saying, “have they ever been as beautiful?”&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;There were so many birds at the feeders. The male cardinal showed up for the first time in awhile, so brilliantly red it was hard to look at him he was too beautiful. On the way home I bought sea scallops fresh from George’s Bank. They are not as big as the ones you see in the winter and darker in color --- the color of a baroque pearl --- but so delicious. They have so much more flavor but then everything does just now.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/Lilac-751932.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/Lilac-751928.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Sunday morning I met my friend for breakfast at Cape Ann Coffee and as we ate and talked and talked and talked blossoms from the cherry and apple trees swirled by on the wind. Everywhere there are flowers. Tulips like boldly colored eggs pop out of the ground and spread their petals to the light. It is Spring. It is Spring. The North Shore Arts Association opened today. Next Sunday is the opening party. I am giving a talk on blogs and how to use them. Somehow I find that funny.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;And the best part of Spring, the white lilacs outside my front door are beginning to bloom. What smells more like promise than lilacs? Everything will be all right because it is Spring and the flowers are back and the waves are high and the birds are singing. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I went a little crazy and bought a bunch of fabric. I haven’t been sewing all winter and I miss it. For me sewing is a very peaceful, centering, nurturing activity. I started cleaning up the sewing room last week and then I saw all this gorgeous fabric and I couldn’t resist it --- pure, soft cotton in dusty rose, periwinkle blue and aqua the color of the light coming through the waves just as they crest and begin to turn over. I found a stash of sueded rayon, one of my favorite fabrics because it is soft and yet has such lovely drape. I can’t wait to have some time to myself in my sewing room. I know what I want to make.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/BackShore-789178.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/BackShore-789149.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;And so it was that first perfect weekend . Today is cool and overcast but that doesn’t matter, it is Spring and Summer is on its way. (&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Below, photo by &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://capeannimages.blogspot.com/"&gt;Dun Fudgin&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; in front of East Gloucester School&lt;/span&gt;)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v410/Breakwater/Cape%20Ann/Cape%20Ann%20II/TheCircle.jpg?t=1210563135"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px;" src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v410/Breakwater/Cape%20Ann/Cape%20Ann%20II/TheCircle.jpg?t=1210563135" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p face="verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Thanks for reading.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/2008/05/that-first-perfect-weekend.html' title='That First Perfect Weekend'/><link rel='related' href='http://www.amazon.com/Old-Mermaids-Tale-Kathleen-Valentine/dp/0978594061' title='That First Perfect Weekend'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14674935&amp;postID=2313737027628765173&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/2313737027628765173'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/2313737027628765173'/><author><name>Kathleen Valentine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15964712984479525970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935.post-6538113931330601269</id><published>2008-05-09T08:47:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-05-09T08:48:15.641-05:00</updated><title type='text'>What About the Money?</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;One of the more interesting aspects of being as involved in blogging the Defonseca Hoax has been some of the emails I have received. I am absolutely gob-smacked, stupefied by our collective schizophrenia about money in this country. On the one hand everything seems to be about money --- getting more, spending more, making more, investing better, etc. and, yet, at the same time there is this huge collective chip-on-the-shoulder about people who actually make money (or appear to, even if they don’t). I’ve gotten a LOT of emails from people claiming to be outraged for any one of a dozen reasons about this case but the big thing that dominates these emails is a question of the money involved.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I can’t tell you how many times people have said that they felt no sympathy for the publisher because she only published the book for the money. Well, excuse me but, DUH! Why does anyone start a business? Why does anyone try to sell their work? In fact, why in the hell does anyone even get out of bed and go to work in the morning? Next question please.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I got a seethingly angry email from a guy who said that regardless of what Misha Defonseca may or may not have done, Jane Daniel was still an unscrupulous business woman that the court found guilty of fraud, deceptive business practices, and mishandling of funds. Yeah, based on the testimony of an admitted liar, perjurer and Holocaust fraud! Is anyone dumb enough to think Defonseca would bring this case against her publisher and then get on the stand and say, “Well, yes, she treated me fairly.” What kind of world do the people who write these letters live in?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The truth is that during the entire trial there was no financial expert witness called, no forensic accountant involved, and, in fact, no public examination of finances. Everyone chose to believe Defonseca’s claims that she received no money. Even when financial documents were entered into evidence they were overlooked by the jury. Daniel’s lawyer has publically stated that when the judgment is overturned he will call for a full financial disclosure of all the monies involved by all parties involved. Who can be dissatisfied with that?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;But what this has pointed out to me, above and beyond the case at hand, is how willing all too many people are to accept the judgment of Big Daddy Justice System and how fearful they are of believing that maybe an entire court case ruling could be just plain wrong. I’ve been watching a lot of courtroom drama movies lately (more because I am trying to learn how to write a screenplay than anything having to do with this case) and I am struck by how often “miscarriage of justice” is the basis for a story. It is actually a very good plot line and one that seems to generate endless variations on. So, given how popular these movies are, one would think that people would be more suspicious of court rulings than they tend to be.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Recently, Gloucester, like many communities, is making a concerted effort to bring more business into the community. I could write all day about the issues involved there. But there have been several business proposals --- ranging from a research facility to a boutique hotel --- discussed. I am, again, stunned by the number of people who have a negative reaction to these proposals and justify it saying, “They’re just about money --- they don’t care about the people of Gloucester.” And what, pray tell, do the people of Gloucester need more than an infusion of money?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I don’t get it. Why are we so obsessed with money and, at the same time, so dismissive of the efforts of people to make it? If anyone can figure this out for me, I’d love to hear from you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Thanks for reading.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/2008/05/what-about-money.html' title='What About the Money?'/><link rel='related' href='http://www.amazon.com/Old-Mermaids-Tale-Kathleen-Valentine/dp/0978594061' title='What About the Money?'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14674935&amp;postID=6538113931330601269&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/6538113931330601269'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/6538113931330601269'/><author><name>Kathleen Valentine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15964712984479525970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935.post-6103922026151529166</id><published>2008-05-06T07:37:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-05-06T07:50:22.425-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A Little Piece of the Past Today</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Yesterday I visited a &lt;a href="http://www.erieblogs.com"&gt;blog site&lt;/a&gt; in Erie, Pennsylvania and came across a wonderful video about that town. As most of my readers know I spent a great deal of my early life in Erie and there is a part of my heart that is always there. When I was writing &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Old-Mermaids-Tale-Kathleen-Valentine/dp/0978594061"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;The Old Mermaid's Tale&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/a&gt;I originally intended to set it in Erie but then, because I didn't want t cause any conflict over the placement of certain features and little details of history, I created a fictional town, Port Presque Isle. Still, readers familiar with Erie will recognize much of what I have written about.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;embed id="VideoPlayback" style="width: 400px; height: 326px;" flashvars="" src="http://video.google.com/googleplayer.swf?docid=-7228798276143268699&amp;amp;hl=en" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;This is the video. It is 27 minutes long and brought back many memories. The colleges it talks about especially - I attended Behrend (which I call Chesterton in my book), I dated a boy from Gannon (Hamilton in the book). My sister Anne attended Mercyhurst and my sister Chris Edinborough. So we have the colleges there pretty much covered.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;But in the video there is a good deal of talk about the maritime history of Lake Erie and this is something that was very important to me when I was writing. I wanted to get it right and watching the video yesterday was reinforcing. I especially loved the photographs of the Old Customs House which is now a museum. Several scenes in my book are set in it. It is where Baptiste works while they are together and it plays a role in the ending.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;So Ihope you will watch and enjoy this video. I love Gloucester --- but I love Erie, too...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Thanks for reading (an watching.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/2008/05/little-piece-of-past-today.html' title='A Little Piece of the Past Today'/><link rel='related' href='http://www.oldmermaidinn.com' title='A Little Piece of the Past Today'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14674935&amp;postID=6103922026151529166&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/6103922026151529166'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/6103922026151529166'/><author><name>Kathleen Valentine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15964712984479525970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935.post-4457593281831395265</id><published>2008-05-05T08:22:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-05-05T08:38:48.900-05:00</updated><title type='text'>SkyShots</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;When I write one of the things I have gotten in the habit of doing is using the internet to remind me of the places I write about. Usually they are places I have spent time in or at least visited but there are times, too, when I need to familiarize myself with a new area. One of the best tools I have found for doing this is Google Earth. I love to spend time studying the shape of the land and its features as I am writing. It gives such a different perspective. And the thing I am most struck by is how very artistic much of our world is when viewed from above --- maybe that's why God stays with us even when we are screwing up big time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/CapeCod-740682.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/CapeCod-740668.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;I started a short story this week and part of it is set out on the tip of Cape Cod. A place I have spent  a few weekends at in the off-season and love when it is quiet and not crawling with people. I was looking at it on Google Earth and was so struck by the gracefulness of the land and the water surrounding it that is seemed more like a piece of art.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;So, because it was a cold and rainy evening and I was tired and felt like wasting some time, I started flying around to a few other beloved places and found many more pieces of aerial art that just astonished me with their beauty. Of course, one of the main characters in &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Old-Mermaids-Tale-Kathleen-Valentine/dp/0978594061"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;The Old Mermaid's Tale&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; is Lake Erie itself, a place I have known and loved all my life. This image is Long Point, a peninsula that juts into the lake on the Canadian side. When Baptiste seduces Clair on the top of a lighthouse he has taken her up there to look at the lights of Long Point.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/LongPoint-767744.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/LongPoint-767741.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;There is something so mesmerizing about the way water shapes land and land shapes water. I have loved Niagara Falls all my life. I haven't been there in fifteen years now. I remember that because I was with my sister Lisa the last time I was there and she was pregnant with Cal at the time. He just turned fifteen. This is the Horseshoe Falls from the air. So lovely. The pattern of the water as it splashes into the river is something I would like to develop into a background pattern sometime.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/NiagaraFalls-712920.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/NiagaraFalls-712906.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;Of course this is just a little taste of such beauties. There are so many more. But it is a good way to revel in the beauties of the place I am attempting to write about --- it reminds me of why I write.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;Thanks for reading.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/2008/05/skyshots.html' title='SkyShots'/><link rel='related' href='http://www.amazon.com/Old-Mermaids-Tale-Kathleen-Valentine/dp/0978594061' title='SkyShots'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14674935&amp;postID=4457593281831395265&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/4457593281831395265'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/4457593281831395265'/><author><name>Kathleen Valentine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15964712984479525970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935.post-7791349715097254185</id><published>2008-05-02T07:51:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2008-05-02T08:13:39.355-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Gloucester Light</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.valentine-design.com/mermaid/GHB1a.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px;" src="http://www.valentine-design.com/mermaid/GHB1a.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Gloucester seems to inspire a natural desire in people to capture the light and the beauty and the sense of place that is a part of living here. In recent months a few blogs have begun by local bloggers who post wonderful photography on their sites. I thought this might be a good time to share a few:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://goodmorninggloucester.wordpress.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Captain Joe's Good Morning Gloucester&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;: Captain Joe is the owner of Capt. Joe and Sons Lobster Company out on East Main Street. Joe is up in the wee hours of the morning and, as he drives about his morning routine, he photographs Gloucester. He has also done a spectacular job of documenting the working waterfront from which he makes his living. He also posts daily information on restaurants, artwork, and other items of interest in Gloucester. This is an excellent resource for people planning to visit here!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://capeannimages.blogspot.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Jay Albert's Cape Ann Images:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; Jay is the best --- a great guy with a great eye for the beauties of our region and a camera always at the ready. He is the photographer who did such a great job of &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.valentine-design.com/MiddleStFire/"&gt;photographing the terrible fire &lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;we had here in December. Visit his blog for many excellent photos of our beautiful area.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.jimbmedia.com/galleries.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;JimB's Galleries of Birds and Bugs:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; Jim Barber is amazing when it comes to photographing birds and bugs. His galleries cover dragonflies, all manner of birds, sunrises and sunsets and more. He also has an online discussion group for bird lovers called &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.forthebirdsboard.com/"&gt;For the Birds&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.followthegleam.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Les Bartlett's Follow the Gleam&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;: Les is an artist with the camera. His artistry was the subject of a recent exhibition at Cape Ann Historical Museum. He has many prints for sale as well as DVDs of Cape Ann images. Les was once a performer with &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.legranddavid.com/"&gt;Le Grand David&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;, the popular magic show in Beverly, MA. He is also a member of &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.capeannartisans.com/"&gt;Cape Ann Artisans&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;There are several other bloggers I'll talk about at another time but for now that should keep you busy. In the meantime, here are a couple more examples of Gloucester Light:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://images.yuku.com/image/jpeg/3fb267c16ab38eeccd7e34b65c9173802d34b7df.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px;" src="http://images.yuku.com/image/jpeg/3fb267c16ab38eeccd7e34b65c9173802d34b7df.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.valentine-design.com/mermaid/WinSols3.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px;" src="http://www.valentine-design.com/mermaid/WinSols3.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Thanks for reading.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/2008/05/gloucester-light.html' title='Gloucester Light'/><link rel='related' href='http://www.oldmermaidinn.com' title='Gloucester Light'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14674935&amp;postID=7791349715097254185&amp;isPopup=true' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/7791349715097254185'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/7791349715097254185'/><author><name>Kathleen Valentine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15964712984479525970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935.post-113231936140454033</id><published>2008-04-30T07:08:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2008-04-30T19:53:26.039-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Mending the Nets</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;"  &gt;It has been a beautiful Spring so far here in Gloucester. There have been a few rainy days but lots of sunshine, too. The last couple days I am having trouble staying inside to work–-when the sunshine is as bright and golden as this I just want to go outside.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My favorite place to go when I have a few minutes is the state fish pier. I am not alone in that, there are plenty of people sitting in their cars reading the paper, drinking coffee, watching the boats go by. Now before summer arrives, it is all working boats in the harbor and they have been busy. Yesterday, just as I got there, a herring boat had come in and the pier was alive with activity. Huge totes of herring were being lifted off the boats and poured into bins to be taken inside and processed. Forklifts scuttled up and down the pier and the gulls–-the gulls were going wild! They soar in great, bright clouds around the boats and as the stream of shining, silvery fish pours out of the totes into the hopper that feeds them into the bins the gulls screech and swoop trying to snatch a prize. The men hate it but it is wonderful to watch.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-size:85%;" &gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.valentine-design.com/mermaid/Mending0.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; width: 200px; cursor: pointer;" alt="" src="http://www.valentine-design.com/mermaid/Mending0.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;"  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;And always there is the continual work of mending the nets, a timeless activity that has gone on since fishermen used nets and is not terribly different today than it was two thousand years ago. The nets today are plastic and fiberglass and miles longer than the nets of earlier times but the process is the same.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-size:85%;" &gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.valentine-design.com/mermaid/Mending5.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; width: 200px; cursor: pointer;" alt="" src="http://www.valentine-design.com/mermaid/Mending5.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;"  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have been watching the men mend their nets for close to twenty years now. These huge nets, which are strung out sometimes for miles in the ocean, are kept afloat by round orange buoys attached to the upper edge. The mesh of the nets is designed to let the smaller fish through so they can go on to keep breeding but they catch the gills of the larger fish so they can be gathered in by the fishermen. The nets spend a lot of time in the water where they sustain considerable wear and tear. Stuff gets caught in the nets that shouldn’t–-mostly sea vegetation–-barnacles grow and assorted pollutants get tangled up in them. They get attacked by larger sea creatures. Sections get torn and damaged. So the men spread the nets out along the pier and they get to work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-size:85%;" &gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.valentine-design.com/mermaid/Mending3.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; width: 200px; cursor: pointer;" alt="" src="http://www.valentine-design.com/mermaid/Mending3.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;"  &gt;With knives the cut away the excess attachments, with line and large bobbins that serve as needles, they weave the damaged places back together. They move along the pier always bent over their nets working as they go. Some sit on over-turned plastic milk crates. Some stand, some kneel. They spend hours and hours. Sometimes I can hear them talking to each other as they work–-sharing news and gossip, telling stories, discussing politics and keeping the world running properly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-size:85%;" &gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.valentine-design.com/OLGV.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; width: 200px; cursor: pointer;" alt="" src="http://www.valentine-design.com/OLGV.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;"  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;It used to be that Our Lady of Good Voyage, the Catholic Church with the two blue spires and the statue of the Blessed Mother holding a fishing schooner in her arms that stands on the hill overlooking the harbor and the fish pier, rang the Angelus at six in the evening. I don’t think they do that anymore but back when they did sometimes on summer evenings you could hear the men praying the Angelus as they worked. I loved that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We live in a technically sophisticated age. I sit before a computer and earn my living. But I love to remind myself that as I sit here creating data, down on the fish pier there are boats unloading their catch, gulls, trying to steal a bit of it, and fishermen mending their nets. I find great comfort in that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for reading.&lt;/span&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/2005/11/mending-nets.html' title='Mending the Nets'/><link rel='related' href='http://www.oldmermaidinn.com' title='Mending the Nets'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14674935&amp;postID=113231936140454033&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/113231936140454033'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/113231936140454033'/><author><name>Kathleen Valentine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15964712984479525970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935.post-3575345816429363995</id><published>2008-04-28T10:14:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-04-28T10:14:53.647-05:00</updated><title type='text'>New panel explores widespread ramifications of recently-revealed Holocaust memoir hoax</title><content type='html'>&lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE                  Contact: Susie Davidson&lt;br /&gt;617-566-7557&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="mailto:Susie_d@yahoo.com"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Susie_d@yahoo.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;New panel explores widespread ramifications of recently-revealed Holocaust memoir hoax&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;In February, 2008, Misha Defonseca confessed that her bestselling autobiography, “Misha: A Memoire of the Holocaust Years,” published in 1997, was a hoax. Publisher Jane Daniel appears in a new speaking tour addressing the hoax, along with genealogist Sharon Sergeant, who compiled the evidence that led to Defonseca’s confession; oral historian and Holocaust author Susie Davidson (“I Refused to Die”); and Holocaust child survivor Rosian Zerner.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The panel will explore the following areas:&lt;br /&gt;° What are the consequences when an impostor usurps Holocaust history and places real survivors in question?&lt;br /&gt;° In the light of other recent fake memoirs, how can publishers be sure that what they publish is true?&lt;br /&gt;° What effect does a fake Holocaust testimonial have on deniers of the Holocaust?&lt;br /&gt;° How did Misha Defonseca sustain the hoax for ten years and how was it exposed?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;An open discussion period will follow the presentation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Full information follows.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For booking information, contact Susie Davidson at &lt;a href="mailto:Susie_d@yahoo.com"&gt;Susie_d@yahoo.com&lt;/a&gt; or 617-566-7557.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;New panel explores widespread ramifications of recently-revealed Holocaust memoir hoax&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;In recognition of Yom HaShoah, I would like to bring to your attention a new program being offered in the Boston area. As you may be aware, recently a Massachusetts woman, Misha Defonseca, confessed that her internationally-bestselling autobiography, “Misha: A Memoire of the Holocaust Years,” was actually a hoax.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This new program, called “Deception and its Aftermath,” presents four women affected by the challenges that stem from this revelation, who discuss protecting the truth of the Holocaust from those who would usurp it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Misha Defonseca began telling her fabricated story in 1989 when she spoke at a local synagogue on Yom HaShoah. Defonseca recounted that, as a seven-year-old child living in occupied Belgium, she set off on foot across the European theatre of war in search of her parents, who had been arrested by the Nazis. Twice during her travels, she said, she was befriended by wolves. It was all a lie. The truth is that she spent the war years at home with her Catholic family.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nevertheless, for years Defonseca was warmly embraced by the local Jewish community. Those who were deceived by her story booked appearances for her, attended her speeches in schools and universities, and donated money. Such prominent figures as Elie Wiesel, the late Leonard Zakim, and Rabbi Albert Axelrod, then Chaplain of Brandeis University, contributed liner notes for her book.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The aftermath of her confession personally and profoundly impacts thousands in the Boston area who heard her speak and offered their support. Beyond that, this revelation affects those who gather stories of Holocaust survivors and Holocaust survivors themselves. There remain innumerable questions as to how such a monumental fraud could have occurred.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The panelists include:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Jane Daniel of Mt Ivy Press&lt;/strong&gt;, the publisher whose original American edition of “Misha” was the basis of an international bestseller and a French feature film. Daniel herself painstakingly fact-checked the story line by line and employed other researchers, but in the end was also taken in. Defonseca sued Daniel, her U.S. publisher, in 1998, winning a $22 million judgment and the return of all rights to the story based on the finding that Mt Ivy had failed to sufficiently promote her book. Daniel has filed a lawsuit to overturn the judgment and posted chapters of her upcoming book on a blog.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Sharon Sergeant, the forensic genealogist&lt;/strong&gt; who put together the team of researchers, who included real “hidden children” Holocaust survivors, that amassed the indisputable evidence leading to Defonseca’s confession. Sergeant’s work was made more challenging by the fact that Belgium has privacy laws that seal vital records for 100 years. As a member of the Massachusetts Genealogical Council Board of Directors, Sergeant advocates for open records to prevent fraud; in this instance, she employed a methodology that can be used by anyone doing historical research on their own family.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Susie Davidson, journalist for the Jewish Advocate&lt;/strong&gt; and weeklies, poet, and author of "I Refused to Die: Stories of Boston-Area Holocaust Survivors and Soldiers who Liberated the Concentration Camps of World War II" and "Jewish Life in Postwar Germany." She speaks about and teaches courses on the Holocaust and global genocide with Dachau liberator Chan Rogers, and organizes genocide awareness events with the local Armenian and Rwandan communities. Davidson is a co-coordinator of the Boston chapter of COEJL, the Coalition on the Environment and Jewish Life, and a board member of the Boston-based activist umbrella organization Alliance for a Healthy Tomorrow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Rosian Zerner, who survived the Holocaust in the Kovno Ghetto, Lithuania, and in hiding&lt;/strong&gt;. She is the former Vice President of the World Federation of Jewish Child Survivors of the Holocaust, where she also served on the Advisory Board and as elected Secretary. She is the contact person for the Greater Boston Child Survivor group, where she serves as representative on the WFJCS Governing Board and as Liaison to “Generations After,” a group for descendants of survivors. She is the Jewish Community Relations Council representative from the American Association of Jewish Holocaust Survivors of Greater Boston, where she serves on the Executive Committee. She is on the Holocaust survivors' Advisory Board (Hakalah) at the Jewish Family and Children's Service, is a docent for the New England Holocaust Memorial, and is on the Yom Hashoah Planning Committee and the Board of American Friends of Mogen Dovid Adom. Zerner has been the keynote speaker at the annual Yom HaShoah commemoration at Faneuil Hall, speaks at universities, synagogues, senior centers, clubs and organizations, and is an advocate on behalf of survivors.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;# # #&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/2008/04/new-panel-explores-widespread.html' title='New panel explores widespread ramifications of recently-revealed Holocaust memoir hoax'/><link rel='related' href='http://www.oldmermaidinn.com' title='New panel explores widespread ramifications of recently-revealed Holocaust memoir hoax'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14674935&amp;postID=3575345816429363995&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/3575345816429363995'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/3575345816429363995'/><author><name>Kathleen Valentine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15964712984479525970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935.post-7642009553161496704</id><published>2008-04-26T14:13:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-04-25T13:10:20.904-05:00</updated><title type='text'>April Know Your Neighbor</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/LibraryAd-785426.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/uploaded_images/LibraryAd-785413.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div  align="center" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Novelist, book promoter and intrepid blogger  Kathleen Valentine will be featured &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div  align="center" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;at the April &lt;strong&gt;Know Your Neighbor&lt;/strong&gt;  at the Sawyer Free Library &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div  align="center" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;in Gloucester on April 28, 2008.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div  align="center" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Her novel &lt;strong&gt;The Old Mermaid's Tale&lt;/strong&gt;  has received praise both for its&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div  align="center" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;literary quality and its preservation of a unique  time in American history,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div  align="center" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;the opening of the St. Lawrence Seaway to  international commerce in 1959.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div  align="center" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Read reviews and purchase the book on &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Old-Mermaids-Tale-Kathleen-Valentine/dp/product-description/0978594061"&gt;Amazon&lt;/a&gt;  or visit &lt;a href="http://www.oldmermaidinn.com/"&gt;the book's web  site&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div  align="center" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;More recently her blog, &lt;a href="http://www.parlezmoiblog.com/"&gt;Parlez-Moi Blog &lt;/a&gt;was instrumental in the  exposé of the &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div  align="center" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Misha Defonseca literary hoax, widely  acknowledged as the biggest literary&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div  align="center" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Holocaust hoax in history.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div  align="center" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Valentine will talk about the writing of her  novel and short stories and how she is&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div  align="center" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;using the internet to promote them including &lt;a href="http://www.valentine-design.com/MermaidInn/"&gt;the online video&lt;/a&gt;. She  will also read from&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div  align="center" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; her forthcoming novel, &lt;strong&gt;Each Angel  Burns&lt;/strong&gt; and talk about how she and two other bloggers&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div  align="center" style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;uncovered the Misha Defonseca hoax.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/2008/03/april-know-your-neighbor.html' title='April Know Your Neighbor'/><link rel='related' href='http://www.oldmermaidinn.com' title='April Know Your Neighbor'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14674935&amp;postID=7642009553161496704&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/7642009553161496704'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/7642009553161496704'/><author><name>Kathleen Valentine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15964712984479525970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935.post-5737241164675639055</id><published>2008-04-25T13:07:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-04-25T13:09:34.954-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Behind the hoax...</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="story"&gt;     &lt;div style="font-family: verdana;" class="byline accent"&gt;&lt;div class="story"&gt;     &lt;div class="byline accent"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" &gt;Published in the Waltham paper today...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By Jeff Gilbride/Daily News staff&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;     &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Daily News Tribune&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;     &lt;div class="timestamp"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Posted Apr 25, 2008 @ 01:03 AM&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;          &lt;hr style="height: 2px;" class="m5v"&gt;     &lt;div class="float_l clearfix m5r"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;WALTHAM — &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;      &lt;div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Misha Defonseca's Holocaust story captured literary audiences and those for silver screen until one woman asked: "What's wrong with this picture?"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;A combination of meticulous research and access to public records allowed genealogist Sharon Sergeant to expose the Belgian woman's 20-year hoax.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;At a seminar at Bentley College tomorrow, the Waltham resident will talk about the sleuthing skills she used to uncover the truth behind the 1997 autobiography "Misha: A Memoire of the Holocaust."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"I'll be speaking about how we solved the case, how we cut through all the smoke screens and all the inconsistencies in the story and how we came up with records that would identify who she was," Sergeant said. "One of the key facts are the records in Massachusetts where she's lived since 1985."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Through public records, Sergeant learned that Misha Defonseca was born Monique Josephine Ernestine De Wael in Belgium in 1937.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Defonseca, 71, owns a home in Dudley but Sergeant is unsure of her exact whereabouts. Sergeant said Defonseca married Maurice Defonseca in the 1970s. The couple moved to Millis in 1985.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"Sometime in the late 1980s, Misha started telling her story about being a Holocaust victim in local Massachusetts synagogues," Sergeant said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sergeant said eventually the story grew and Defonseca was offered speaking engagements in local colleges. In 1997, she published her memoir, a book that was translated into 18 languages.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The book is an autobiographical tale of a young Jewish girl whose parents were arrested and deported by the Nazis in 1941. The 6-year old girl was then taken in by a Belgian family who offered protection and a new identity. Sergeant said that was a lie.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"The family she first identified as her foster family was her real family," Sergeant said. "She was born a Catholic in Belgium with Catholic parents."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Her parents, Robert and Josephine De Wael, had actually been members of the Belgian resistance during the war and were executed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The book goes on to describe the young girl's journey to find her real family. She wanders across Germany, Poland, Ukraine, Romania, Yugoslavia, across the across the Adriatic Sea, through the Alps and back to Belgium. During her journey, she said she was sheltered by a pack of wolves and witnessed the horrors of World War II.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The book was eventually picked up by a different publisher in France released as "Surviving with Wolves." The story is also the basis of a French film of the same name.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sergeant said the new version had fewer photographs than the original American version.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;In 2001, Defonseca won a $33 million judgment against the original U.S. publisher of the book, Mount Ivy Press, Sergeant said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"She claimed the U.S. publisher had cheated her and had not promoted her book properly. ... Mount Ivy was destroyed by this. They were a tiny independent publisher," Sergeant said. "The story that was told in the original U.S. book was key to finding out who she really was."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The real purpose of the lawsuit, she said, was to kill the U.S. version because it had too much information.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;In December 2007, Sergeant said she read an online blog by the U.S. publisher, Jane Daniel of Mount Ivy Press. Sergeant said Daniel was still struggling to understand why Defonseca turned against her after Daniel made it possible for her to publish her story.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"Jane Daniel was desperate to find out the real story because she had been destroyed by these lawsuits," Sergeant said. "I read Jane Daniel's story and I said, 'I think this can be solved."'&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;During that time, Sergeant said she had been in touch with national and international experts on forensic genealogy while working on different cases.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"I consulted with some people that I thought would be helpful. In fact by February, we had the documentation to prove who she really was," she said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"The very first thing that helped us acquire the documents that were critical in the expose was the U.S. publication. It had a lot of photographs."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sergeant said the photographs from the original story along with information gathered from Defonseca's friends and relatives provided her with enough information to determine inconsistencies in her story.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"We had that as a guide because those photographs were stripped from the modified version," Sergeant said. "We looked at the difference between the original U.S. version and the subsequent foreign version. We focused on that and literally said, 'What's wrong with this picture?"'&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sergeant said a physical resemblance allowed her to determine Defonseca's "foster grandparents" were her real grandparents.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sergeant also found Defonseca was not born in 1934, but 1937. Two months ago, Sergeant started releasing Defonseca's birth certificate and school records to different publications in Belgium.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"There were several people in Europe who were questioning her story publicly and who were being attacked for questioning her story," Sergeant said. "By that time we had figured out who she really was. Once we did that, that information went to the Belgian press. Misha lived here in Dudley. She was asked to comment on this info. Her initial response was she was hurt anyone would question her."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sergeant said she continued to leak information through the Belgian press, eventually leading to Defonseca's admission that the memoir was a fantasy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"Finally at the end of Feb. 29 she confessed that she was actually Monique De Wael and that she wasn't Jewish and she wasn't a hidden child," Sergeant said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"This story is mine. It is not actually reality, but my reality, my way of surviving," Defonseca said in a statement given by her lawyers to the Associated Press in February.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Daniel from Mount Ivy Press filed suit in state court on April 9 to overturn Defonseca's original $33 million judgment, Sergeant said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sergeant is hoping to spread a message to preserve public records to prevent fraud in the future.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"In Belgium the vital records, birth, marriage and death are sealed. That means they are not open for inspection for 100 years," she said. "That allowed Defonseca to keep secret who she really was. For people who were skeptical, they couldn't check on a lot of things because the records were not available to them."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The Massachusetts Genealogical Council's seminar will begin at 8:30 a.m. in the Lacava Conference Center. Sergeant is scheduled to speak at 12:30 p.m.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Jeff Gilbride can be reached at 781-398-8005 or at jgilbrid@cnc.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Question of Motive&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Misha Defonseca's motive to lie about her past is unclear but Sharon Sergeant says it may have been for attention.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"From the best we can tell, when she first started this it was for attention," she said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;From 1989 to 1992 Maurice Defonseca, her husband, was an international executive with a French computer company, Sergeant said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"The French computer company Phillips was headquartered in Paris. During the time period she was telling the story, Maurice wasn't around much."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;In 1992 Maurice became unemployed and by 1994, the couple was experiencing financial hardship, Sergeant said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"She started soliciting money for her cause again while working on the publication of her book. This escalated," Sergeant said. "By 2001 when the trial against her original publisher (Jane Daniel) was happening, they claimed they were penniless and claimed they were taken in by a family in Milford."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sergeant said she has never met Defonseca in person but said she has heard firsthand accounts describing her personality.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"Everybody that knew her personally as well as the woman that took her in Milford for 2 1/2 years said she was a compelling person," Sergeant said. "She clearly has some kind of acting ability to pull off what she did."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;    &lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By Jeff Gilbride/Daily News staff&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;     &lt;div style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Daily News Tribune&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;     &lt;div style="font-family: verdana;" class="timestamp"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Posted Apr 25, 2008 @ 01:03 AM&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;          &lt;hr style="font-family: verdana; height: 2px;" class="m5v"&gt;     &lt;div style="font-family: verdana;" class="float_l clearfix m5r"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;WALTHAM — &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;      &lt;div&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Misha Defonseca's Holocaust story captured literary audiences and those for silver screen until one woman asked: "What's wrong with this picture?"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;A combination of meticulous research and access to public records allowed genealogist Sharon Sergeant to expose the Belgian woman's 20-year hoax.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;At a seminar at Bentley College tomorrow, the Waltham resident will talk about the sleuthing skills she used to uncover the truth behind the 1997 autobiography "Misha: A Memoire of the Holocaust."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"I'll be speaking about how we solved the case, how we cut through all the smoke screens and all the inconsistencies in the story and how we came up with records that would identify who she was," Sergeant said. "One of the key facts are the records in Massachusetts where she's lived since 1985."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Through public records, Sergeant learned that Misha Defonseca was born Monique Josephine Ernestine De Wael in Belgium in 1937.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Defonseca, 71, owns a home in Dudley but Sergeant is unsure of her exact whereabouts. Sergeant said Defonseca married Maurice Defonseca in the 1970s. The couple moved to Millis in 1985.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"Sometime in the late 1980s, Misha started telling her story about being a Holocaust victim in local Massachusetts synagogues," Sergeant said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sergeant said eventually the story grew and Defonseca was offered speaking engagements in local colleges. In 1997, she published her memoir, a book that was translated into 18 languages.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The book is an autobiographical tale of a young Jewish girl whose parents were arrested and deported by the Nazis in 1941. The 6-year old girl was then taken in by a Belgian family who offered protection and a new identity. Sergeant said that was a lie.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"The family she first identified as her foster family was her real family," Sergeant said. "She was born a Catholic in Belgium with Catholic parents."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Her parents, Robert and Josephine De Wael, had actually been members of the Belgian resistance during the war and were executed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The book goes on to describe the young girl's journey to find her real family. She wanders across Germany, Poland, Ukraine, Romania, Yugoslavia, across the across the Adriatic Sea, through the Alps and back to Belgium. During her journey, she said she was sheltered by a pack of wolves and witnessed the horrors of World War II.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The book was eventually picked up by a different publisher in France released as "Surviving with Wolves." The story is also the basis of a French film of the same name.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sergeant said the new version had fewer photographs than the original American version.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;In 2001, Defonseca won a $33 million judgment against the original U.S. publisher of the book, Mount Ivy Press, Sergeant said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"She claimed the U.S. publisher had cheated her and had not promoted her book properly. ... Mount Ivy was destroyed by this. They were a tiny independent publisher," Sergeant said. "The story that was told in the original U.S. book was key to finding out who she really was."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The real purpose of the lawsuit, she said, was to kill the U.S. version because it had too much information.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;In December 2007, Sergeant said she read an online blog by the U.S. publisher, Jane Daniel of Mount Ivy Press. Sergeant said Daniel was still struggling to understand why Defonseca turned against her after Daniel made it possible for her to publish her story.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"Jane Daniel was desperate to find out the real story because she had been destroyed by these lawsuits," Sergeant said. "I read Jane Daniel's story and I said, 'I think this can be solved."'&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;During that time, Sergeant said she had been in touch with national and international experts on forensic genealogy while working on different cases.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"I consulted with some people that I thought would be helpful. In fact by February, we had the documentation to prove who she really was," she said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"The very first thing that helped us acquire the documents that were critical in the expose was the U.S. publication. It had a lot of photographs."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sergeant said the photographs from the original story along with information gathered from Defonseca's friends and relatives provided her with enough information to determine inconsistencies in her story.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"We had that as a guide because those photographs were stripped from the modified version," Sergeant said. "We looked at the difference between the original U.S. version and the subsequent foreign version. We focused on that and literally said, 'What's wrong with this picture?"'&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sergeant said a physical resemblance allowed her to determine Defonseca's "foster grandparents" were her real grandparents.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sergeant also found Defonseca was not born in 1934, but 1937. Two months ago, Sergeant started releasing Defonseca's birth certificate and school records to different publications in Belgium.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"There were several people in Europe who were questioning her story publicly and who were being attacked for questioning her story," Sergeant said. "By that time we had figured out who she really was. Once we did that, that information went to the Belgian press. Misha lived here in Dudley. She was asked to comment on this info. Her initial response was she was hurt anyone would question her."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sergeant said she continued to leak information through the Belgian press, eventually leading to Defonseca's admission that the memoir was a fantasy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"Finally at the end of Feb. 29 she confessed that she was actually Monique De Wael and that she wasn't Jewish and she wasn't a hidden child," Sergeant said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"This story is mine. It is not actually reality, but my reality, my way of surviving," Defonseca said in a statement given by her lawyers to the Associated Press in February.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Daniel from Mount Ivy Press filed suit in state court on April 9 to overturn Defonseca's original $33 million judgment, Sergeant said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sergeant is hoping to spread a message to preserve public records to prevent fraud in the future.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"In Belgium the vital records, birth, marriage and death are sealed. That means they are not open for inspection for 100 years," she said. "That allowed Defonseca to keep secret who she really was. For people who were skeptical, they couldn't check on a lot of things because the records were not available to them."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The Massachusetts Genealogical Council's seminar will begin at 8:30 a.m. in the Lacava Conference Center. Sergeant is scheduled to speak at 12:30 p.m.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Jeff Gilbride can be reached at 781-398-8005 or at jgilbrid@cnc.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Question of Motive&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Misha Defonseca's motive to lie about her past is unclear but Sharon Sergeant says it may have been for attention.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"From the best we can tell, when she first started this it was for attention," she said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;From 1989 to 1992 Maurice Defonseca, her husband, was an international executive with a French computer company, Sergeant said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"The French computer company Phillips was headquartered in Paris. During the time period she was telling the story, Maurice wasn't around much."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;In 1992 Maurice became unemployed and by 1994, the couple was experiencing financial hardship, Sergeant said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"She started soliciting money for her cause again while working on the publication of her book. This escalated," Sergeant said. "By 2001 when the trial against her original publisher (Jane Daniel) was happening, they claimed they were penniless and claimed they were taken in by a family in Milford."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sergeant said she has never met Defonseca in person but said she has heard firsthand accounts describing her personality.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"Everybody that knew her personally as well as the woman that took her in Milford for 2 1/2 years said she was a compelling person," Sergeant said. "She clearly has some kind of acting ability to pull off what she did."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;    &lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/2008/04/behind-hoax.html' title='Behind the hoax...'/><link rel='related' href='http://www.oldmermaidinn.com' title='Behind the hoax...'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14674935&amp;postID=5737241164675639055&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/5737241164675639055'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/5737241164675639055'/><author><name>Kathleen Valentine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15964712984479525970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935.post-2544462036516069008</id><published>2008-04-23T08:25:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-04-23T08:27:00.929-05:00</updated><title type='text'>How Now, Mad Wag!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-family: verdana;"&gt;What with thy quips and thy quiddities? What plague have I to do with this buff jerkin?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;That’s about the only line of Shakespeare that I know other than the ones everyone knows. I don’t even know what play it comes from but I’ve remembered it since high school. Anyway, Happy Birthday, fair Will! If you were alive you’d be 392 years old.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;It’s sort of amazing that after all these years Shakespeare continues to be the most frequently produced playwrite in the world. But, when you think about it, the basis of his plays are all those universal themes that could be as relevant today as they were then and before then. Love, jealousy, power, passion, lust, greed, envy, desire --- Shakespeare didn’t shy away from anything and, in so doing, he gave the literary world a database of what comprises story. Story in its essence. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I was not particularly fond of Shakespeare when I was younger. In college I took a number of drama classes and for one project I directed a scene from &lt;b style=""&gt;A Midsummer Night’s Dream&lt;/b&gt; but I am quite certain that I contributed nothing original or even interesting to that project. But in recent years, largely thanks to my friendship with Clare Higgins, I’ve begun to appreciate the Bard more. Clare, who lives across the hall from me, is a Shakespearian scholar. She wrote a play called &lt;b style=""&gt;Queer Bent for the Tudor Gent&lt;/b&gt;, a send-up of &lt;b style=""&gt;Queer Eye for the Straight Guy&lt;/b&gt; but entirely composed in Shakespearian verse (and fully annotated). Her play was produced in New York and in Sydney, Australia and I have seen the video tape of the production. It is just great and so clever. And his words are as timely today as they were back then.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Since then Clare and I have watched a few of the recent movies made from Shakespeare’s plays. Most notable in my mind is &lt;b style=""&gt;The Merchant of Venice&lt;/b&gt; with Al Pacino as Shylock. When I read about it I thought it an odd choice to play the infamous moneylender but I have never seen an actor more fully inhabit a role. I guess you can do that with good material.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;As I read more of McKee’s &lt;b style=""&gt;Story &lt;/b&gt;I am more than ever convinced that story is everything --- in books, in plays, in songs, and in life. Story doesn’t have to be a big thing but it has to be a true thing. Boy meets girl, boy falls for girl, boy fights duel over girl, boy kills himself because he thinks girl is dead, girl wakes up and finds him dead and follows suit. That’s quite a story. “Oh happy dagger! This is thy sheath! There rust and let me die!” Whew.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;And so, good Will, you are remembered and remembered and remembered. And rightly so:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Like as the waves make towards the pebbled shore,&lt;br /&gt;So do our minutes hasten to their end;&lt;br /&gt;Each changing place with that which goes before,&lt;br /&gt;In sequent toil all forwards do contend.&lt;br /&gt;Nativity, once in the main of light,&lt;br /&gt;Crawls to maturity, wherewith being crown'd,&lt;br /&gt;Crooked elipses 'gainst his glory fight,&lt;br /&gt;And Time that gave doth now his gift confound.&lt;br /&gt;Time doth transfix the flourish set on youth&lt;br /&gt;And delves the parallels in beauty's brow,&lt;br /&gt;Feeds on the rarities of nature's truth,&lt;br /&gt;And nothing stands but for his scythe to mow:&lt;br /&gt;And yet to times in hope my verse shall stand,&lt;br /&gt;Praising thy worth, despite his cruel hand.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;Thanks for reading...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/2008/04/how-now-mad-wag.html' title='How Now, Mad Wag!'/><link rel='related' href='http://www.oldmermaidinn.com' title='How Now, Mad Wag!'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14674935&amp;postID=2544462036516069008&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/2544462036516069008'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/2544462036516069008'/><author><name>Kathleen Valentine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15964712984479525970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935.post-2078207567038288876</id><published>2008-04-21T07:53:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-04-21T07:54:38.710-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Twas Brillig…</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: georgia; font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" &gt;`Twas brillig, and the slithy toves,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: georgia; font-style: italic;"&gt;  Did gyre and gimble in the wabe:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: georgia; font-style: italic;"&gt;All mimsy were the borogoves,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: georgia; font-style: italic;"&gt;  And the mome raths outgrabe. – &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: georgia;"&gt;Lewis Carrol&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;I have no idea what that means --- nobody does --- but this was the sort of weekend that makes you feel that way. It was a warm, golden, breezy, luscious weekend with a particularly high high tide and the scent of salt water everywhere in the air. The church bells rang clearer on Sunday morning and the sounds of the ships coming and going from the harbor and the trains coming and going up the hill were all richer, brighter, more seductive. It is Spring and this is as welcome a Spring as I can ever remember.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;It was a weekend to clean out the winter’s accumulation of junk in the car, put the top down and cruise the back shore, check on all the lighthouses to see how they fared through the winter, meet one friend for breakfast and another for dinner, and spend time on the beach soaking up much missed sunshine. It was a weekend for gathering in Connie’s living room with other knitters and to sit and chat and knit and share stories of how we have survived another New England winter. The birds filled the feeders on her porch and, on the horizon, the twin lighthouses of Thacher Island stood sentinel as they have for hundreds of years, calmly blinking into the blue of the day.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;At high tide Good Harbor Beach was underwater all the way to the bridge. Kites were fluttering in the serene blue of the sky, dogs were splashing kids in the creek, and those who had snuggled back into the dunes and lost track of time found themselves in need of wading through a foot of cold water to get up on the bridge that would take them across the creek to where their cars were parked. These Spring tides are especially beautiful because the air is still crystal clear with the remains of winter chill and the light refracts back and forth from beach sand to granite rocks to swirling waters and makes odd rainbows and patterns of shimmering reflection bouncing off of every surface including faces of friends and neighbors.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;And the flowers are coming into bloom. Everywhere are daffodils and jonquils and little purple volunteers of unknown parentage. The two white magnolias in front of the West End Theater are in full, glorious bloom and that magnificent, huge, gorgeous pink magnolia on Rogers Street in front of the bank is about to explode. There are few sights in the world more gorgeous than that tree when it explodes with every shade of pink imaginable.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;I didn’t accomplish a lot this weekend unless you count chatting with friends, sharing meals, reading on the beach, and reveling in the joy of a Cape Ann Spring as accomplishment. Which I do. I am still reading &lt;b style=""&gt;Story&lt;/b&gt; which is a book so rich in ideas that you can only read a few pages before taking a break to think and digest them. I took one of his suggestions and bought a pack of index cards and started filling them with the story points that will eventually form the scenes. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;I downloaded some software I need to learn and printed out the manuals and that’s as far as I got. It was too beautiful. It was just too beautiful outside to stay inside.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;So it is now Spring in Gloucester. There are a lot of cold, rainy days ahead but the snows are behind us now and we have summer to look forward to. In less than a month the art association will open and life will become intoxicating. All mimsy are the borogoves and… well, you know the rest.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt; Thanks for reading.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/2008/04/twas-brillig.html' title='Twas Brillig…'/><link rel='related' href='http://www.oldmermaidinn.com' title='Twas Brillig…'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14674935&amp;postID=2078207567038288876&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/2078207567038288876'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/2078207567038288876'/><author><name>Kathleen Valentine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15964712984479525970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935.post-2164802198971414157</id><published>2008-04-18T08:51:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-04-18T08:52:12.423-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Story</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;Recently a friend gave me a copy of Robert McKee’s &lt;/span&gt;&lt;b style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;Story: Substance, Structure, Style, and the Principles of Screenwriting&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;. I own a lot of books about writing. In fact I probably own nearly as many books about writing as I do books of writing. There’s something wrong there but I expect many writers can say the same thing. However, this book is so excellent that it’s tempting to say it is the only book an aspiring writer needs. I don’t actually think that is true – writers need constant inspiration and plenty of reassurance from other writers, too. But this is an excellent source of information for a writer at any level --- particularly fiction writers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The basis of the entire book is that it is our job as writers to tell a story and to tell it well. The second part of that is where a lot of us fail. One of the observations that McKee makes is that many writers talk about being “blocked” --- they can’t write because they are blocked. What McKee says is that writers get blocked because they just don’t have anything to say at that point in time. I understand this all too well. I like to think that, as a writer, I always have something to say but I also know that is not true. I sit down with the intention of writing and nothing happens. Nothing happens because my mind is in other places, I am thinking about other things, there is other stuff I should be doing and that takes precedence over the holy act of writing (thank you, Harlan Ellison). The solution for that, of course, is fresh input, fresh perspectives, new experiences --- and I have to take responsibility for bringing those into my life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Story is the legacy of humankind. Every day of our life we are surrounded by stories. Every song on the radio tells a little story, every article in a newspaper or magazine or on the news, television, movies, chatting with friends --- all these things bring stories into our lives and every single one of them gives us an opportunity to make a new story of our own.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;A good story takes a piece of life and explores its essence, its underlying challenges and lessons, an examination of its values, and it presents it to the reader in such a way that it gives a believable and identifiable perspective that the reader can accept and experience in a way that gives a fresh perspective. There is no such thing as a new story. But each old story can be retold with fresh eyes and details and values that make it seem as alive and vibrant and relevant as it was the first time it was told. The standard story boy meets girl/boy loses girl/boy gets girl back has been told thousands of times and yet people never seem to tire of it. Because it is real and it is us and it is universal.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I have often said here and elsewhere that the virtue of the novel is because it tells the truth unencumbered by the facts. That’s true of every well-told story --- it tells the truth. The facts may shift and change and be refined and re-polished and reinvented to suit the story but the truth at the core remains true. Our mission, as storytellers, is to retell these stories well and truly with fresh perspective and no small amount of craft. Without craft you might as well go do something else because writing without craft is dead writing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Possibly my favorite passage in the book (so far, I have a long way to go in it) says:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana; font-style: italic;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Life on its own, without art to shape it, leaves you in confusion and chaos, but aesthetic emotion harmonizes what you know with what you feel to give you a heightened awareness and a sureness of your place in reality. In short, a story well-told gives you the very thing you cannot get from life: meaningful emotional experience. In life, experiences become meaningful &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;with reflection in time&lt;/span&gt;. In art, they are meaningful now, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;at the instant they happen&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;That’s pretty inspiring stuff and charges all who would write with a great and noble purpose. Buy this book. Read this book. Learn your craft.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Thanks for reading.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/2008/04/story.html' title='Story'/><link rel='related' href='http://www.kathleenvalentine.com' title='Story'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14674935&amp;postID=2164802198971414157&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://parlezmoipress.com/mermaid/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/2164802198971414157'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14674935/posts/default/2164802198971414157'/><author><name>Kathleen Valentine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15964712984479525970</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14674935.post-6918170978002030958</id><published>2008-04-17T08:13:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2008-04-17T09:19:41.165-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Unjust Enrichment &amp; the Politics of Personal Destruction</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;On Tuesday an article appeared in &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://download-v5.streamload.com/0f6e528c-edcf-40dc-8d6a-be9b0dc287ed/distribution_media/Hosted/LeeDanielSuitStory2.htm"&gt;National Law Journal&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; about the suit filed by Jane Daniel and Mt. Ivy Press seeking to overturn the judgment against her. This has been such a long and difficult legal battle that it astonishes me that she can continue to fight but this time she is fighting for her home and has the advantage of knowing that the entire ordeal she has been through was all based on fraud.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Imagine that! Ten years of lawyers and court and being slimed all over the news. Ten years of seeing your entire family devastated by the egregious and unwarranted claims against you. Ten years in which she saw both of her parents die never knowing what was going to happen to their daughter. Both her father and her daughter were drawn into the battle when the lawyers on Defonseca-Lee’s side went after them claiming they were hiding funds --- you know those mysterious funds that Daniel is supposed to have swindled. And all of it --- all the misery and lies and pain and slander was all based on lies. All based on Defonseca’s allegation that she was Jewish and a victim of the Holocaust when she was actually a little Catholic girl attending school in Belgium and living with her grandfather. All lies. All lies.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;In the article Lee’s attorney Frank Frisoli continued his character assassination of Daniel --- something he has honed and perfected for years --- reiterating his allegations that she defrauded Defonseca and Lee and engaged in fraudulent business practices. Daniel’s attorney, Gloucester’s Joseph M. Orlando countered by saying once the judgment is vacated all the accounts will be available for examination. The court can peruse them at will and make their own determination.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;One of the bizarre aspects of this case is that during the course of the trial no accountant was called in to do a thorough examination of the books. All the testimony about fraud was supplied by Defonseca and we have seen how reliable her word is. Lee, who started the legal firestorm, by suing Mt. Ivy because her name wasn’t going to be on the cover of the book, claims she has never received any funds from the judgment. All these claims and counterclaims about money need to be examined and, as Justice Brandies always said, held up to the light for disinfecting.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;In law there is a term “unjust enrichment”. It is an interesting term. What it means is that you cannot profit from unjust acts --- this most certainly includes fraud. Defonseca’s acts of fraud seem endless at the moment. She lied about her history to concoct her entire Holocaust-survivor story. She was speaking at synagogues and telling that fraudulent story when Daniel met her but now Defonseca claims that she never wanted to write the book --- that Jane made her do it. Defonseca represented herself in court in the beginning and, as such, acted as an officer of the court. Because her entire argument was based on fraud she not only committed perjury right from the beginning but, as an officer of the court, also committed fraud on the court (as &lt;a href="http://www.mediamax.com/distribution_media/Hosted/Daniel-DefonsecaComplaint.htm"&gt;alleged in the complaint&lt;/a&gt;). Consequently, any money that Lee received as a result of the judgments ought to qualify as unjust enrichment --- money obtained as the result of lies, fraud, and perjury. Though she may not have been directly at fault, she still cannot profit from the judgment for money other than what may have been owed to her for services. Any money Defonseca received goes well beyond unjust enrichment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;We can only hope that the court will take note of that this time around and ask to see the books --- all the books, Daniel’s, Mt. Ivy’s, Defonseca’s, Lee’s, etc. If money cannot be accounted for then that needs to be addressed. If Defonseca and Lee profited because of Defonseca’s fraud and perjury that also needs to be addressed. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;There is also the issue of all the funds Defonseca garnered from people who wanted to support the poor Holocaust-survivor that she claimed to be. Whether it was for speaker’s fees or just support from well-meaning individual, Defonseca obtained them by presenting herself as a Holocaust survivor and using that as a means of garnering sympathy. I can well understand that the people who were victims of her fraudulent behavior now feel embarrassed and &lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;want nothing to do with the entire situation figuring the money is gone and they were duped. We can only hope that some people within that community and the Jewish community at large will have the courage to come forth and say that this is wrong. Defonseca cannot get away with what she got away with. It is unacceptable and amends need to be made.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font